*THIS IS ONLY AN OPINION. FEEL FREE TO AGREE OR DISAGREE*
HONESTY IN RELATIONSHIPS ARE WILDCARDS. A LOT OF US ARE DISHONEST BECAUSE WE WOULD LIKE TO PROTECT THE FEELINGS OF OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER. SOME OF US HIDE INFORMATION BECAUSE WE ARE SO USED TO LIVING OUR OWN LIVES THAT WE DON'T KNOW HOW TO INCLUDE OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER. THEN OTHERS ARE DISHONEST BECAUSE IT IS EMBEDDED IN OUR BEHAVIOR. PEOPLE CAN LIVE THEIR WHOLE LIFE FRONTIN'. IT JUST IS WHAT IT IS!
AS WOMEN, WE ALREADY HAVE A LEVEL OF TRUST BUILT WITH OUR SIGNIFICANT PARTNER (WHETHER IT BE LOW OR HIGH) HONESTY IS ONE OF THOSE FACTORS THAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE BUILT ON AND COULD ALSO TEAR IT DOWN. AND WHEN YOUR WOMAN LOOKS AT YOU AND SAYS "TELL ME THE TRUTH" OR "KEEP IT REAL WITH ME", YOU NEED TO QUESTION YOURSELF ABOUT WHY YOU ARE ASHAMED OF YOUR ACTIONS? IS IT WORTH THE FINAL DESTINATION OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP? CAN YOU TAKE TIME OUT TO TALK IT OUT? JUST A THOUGHT GUYS. LET'S KEEP THIS GOING.
WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?
Personally I think that women use those lines as worms or treats to appeal to the better judgement of a male. When women use these lines they honestly don't want us to be honest. I believe firmly that after they say "tell me the truth" they just mean "tell me what I want to hear." Once a woman has her mind fixed on something, there's only a limited amount of things that can change what she's thinking. When she says this, no matter what a guys response is, before it comes out of his mouth it is either a lie or a cover up to women. The only thing that they will believe of be satisfied with is anything that proves or shows signs of infidelity on our part. I could be wrong because I'm not a girl, but I really do believe what I said was true. Like your disclaimer states, this is merely my opinion and anyone could agree or agree to disagree. Help me out, am I getting at something guys (women and men)?
ReplyDeleteI agree. But this is what separates boys from men. For you to understand that means you have a lot of experience or have taken a great hypothesis. Depending on the degree of trust, the woman could take honesty but they also have to be reassured that the situation was just what it was and that you would like to move on from it and leave it in the past. Whatever the situation may have been. Idk, if I really loved someone I would want to believe that anything they tell me is solid. That why they said love is blind. You know Troy?
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