"HE" WANTS TO KNOW...

Why is it that women say they want guys to be honest but when they are it's a problem?

*THIS IS ONLY AN OPINION. FEEL FREE TO AGREE OR DISAGREE*

  HONESTY IN RELATIONSHIPS ARE WILDCARDS. A LOT OF US ARE DISHONEST BECAUSE WE WOULD LIKE TO PROTECT THE FEELINGS OF OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER. SOME OF US HIDE INFORMATION BECAUSE WE ARE SO USED TO LIVING OUR OWN LIVES THAT WE DON'T KNOW HOW TO INCLUDE OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER. THEN OTHERS ARE DISHONEST BECAUSE IT IS EMBEDDED IN OUR BEHAVIOR. PEOPLE CAN LIVE THEIR WHOLE LIFE FRONTIN'. IT JUST IS WHAT IT IS!

AS WOMEN, WE ALREADY HAVE A LEVEL OF TRUST BUILT WITH OUR SIGNIFICANT PARTNER (WHETHER IT BE LOW OR HIGH) HONESTY IS ONE OF THOSE FACTORS THAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE BUILT ON AND COULD ALSO TEAR IT DOWN. AND WHEN YOUR WOMAN LOOKS AT YOU AND SAYS "TELL ME THE TRUTH" OR "KEEP IT REAL WITH ME", YOU NEED TO QUESTION YOURSELF ABOUT WHY YOU ARE ASHAMED OF YOUR ACTIONS? IS IT WORTH THE FINAL DESTINATION OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP? CAN YOU TAKE TIME OUT TO TALK IT OUT? JUST A THOUGHT GUYS. LET'S KEEP THIS GOING. 

WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?

FYI: TWO MAIN KEYS TO A WOMAN'S HEART

*THIS IS ONLY AN OPINION. FEEL FREE TO AGREE OR DISAGREE*

TWO MAIN KEYS TO A WOMAN'S HEART

(AFEECTION AND STABILITY)

    So beautiful  people, since I did the "TWO MAIN KEYS TO A MAN'S HEART" it is only right for me to post something for the FELLAS to enjoy! 

Despite of what you guys may think, women (like men) come in variety. Depending on how much we feel for a person, will determine how flexible we will become. Have you ever heard the term "Bend over backwards for you?" Yea! When women are in love or infatuated, it is easy to manipulate or get over on us. There are some women out there that have guarded their feelings so that they won't become "soft" or "involved". There is nothing "soft" about mutual love. But if you are a guy seeking to conquer that woman of your dreams or just somebody to ride for you; no matter what her persona may be AFFECTION and STABILITY is what she needs. Now I get answers such as money, dick, honesty, and fidelity but these factors are how to keep a woman, NOT how to get her heart. Money is one of those things that "it's good while it lasted", Dick is "temporary STFU medicine", Honesty is the "prove me wrong" tactic, and fidelity is a respect issue. We will touch on those later but for now educate yourself!

AFFECTION- A woman loves to be complimented, nurtured, and supported. All of these fall under affection because she could be tough as nails, but if that guy could find a way to make her smile-SHE IS SOLD! Although this may not be a simple task. Pride is a bitch GUYS and if you really want a woman to stay by your side, you have to give her that affection she needs. Like plants need sunlight and water.

STABILITY- Women love stability because it lets them know that their place in your life is solid. Even though I believe everything has an expiration date. It is important to give that woman consistency and adventure. A relationship without stability to a woman is like a man with no dick-USELESS. 

(How to keep your relationship stable-----LATER POST) 

WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?

FYI: Two Main Keys To A Man's Heart

*THIS IS ONLY AN OPINION. FEEL FREE TO AGREE OR DISAGREE*

TWO MAIN KEYS TO A MAN'S HEART

(SUPPORT AND PASSION)

   So check this out! Men are like common colds that "we" as women have yet to discover the remedy . There is no remedy! Can't live with them, can't live without them. Although I am wise, I don't know it all. This blog post is for the woman who wants to build a more serious relationship to the woman who just wants some knowledge. Like women, men love being listened to (believe it or not). Now when I address this question to some people, I hear answers like pussy, personality, trust, connection, blah blah blah! All understandable BUT come on people, it is deeper than what the average person can guess. Support and Passion are the keys to a man's heart. The journey to a man's heart could range from "easy task to mission impossible".No matter what kind of personality you have, you can accomplish these two things to make your man or "potential man" happy!
SUPPORT- If he raps, plays ball, has a business idea, or whatever the case may be, LISTEN and make sure he knows that you will support whatever he does that is beneficial to his lifestyle and happiness. When a man feels supported, that is a sign of loyalty and humility to him.
PASSION- There is no better feeling than the way a woman can maker her man feel. When it is grand it is spectacular and a man will value that feeling over any temporary nut or fling. There will always be temptation but just make sure you keep it spicy on your end. :)
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