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Monday, May 16, 2011

FYI: TWO MAIN KEYS TO A WOMAN'S HEART

*THIS IS ONLY AN OPINION. FEEL FREE TO AGREE OR DISAGREE*

TWO MAIN KEYS TO A WOMAN'S HEART
(AFEECTION AND STABILITY)

    So beautiful  people, since I did the "TWO MAIN KEYS TO A MAN'S HEART" it is only right for me to post something for the FELLAS to enjoy! 
Despite of what you guys may think, women (like men) come in variety. Depending on how much we feel for a person, will determine how flexible we will become. Have you ever heard the term "Bend over backwards for you?" Yea! When women are in love or infatuated, it is easy to manipulate or get over on us. There are some women out there that have guarded their feelings so that they won't become "soft" or "involved". There is nothing "soft" about mutual love. But if you are a guy seeking to conquer that woman of your dreams or just somebody to ride for you; no matter what her persona may be AFFECTION and STABILITY is what she needs. Now I get answers such as money, dick, honesty, and fidelity but these factors are how to keep a woman, NOT how to get her heart. Money is one of those things that "it's good while it lasted", Dick is "temporary STFU medicine", Honesty is the "prove me wrong" tactic, and fidelity is a respect issue. We will touch on those later but for now educate yourself!
AFFECTION- A woman loves to be complimented, nurtured, and supported. All of these fall under affection because she could be tough as nails, but if that guy could find a way to make her smile-SHE IS SOLD! Although this may not be a simple task. Pride is a bitch GUYS and if you really want a woman to stay by your side, you have to give her that affection she needs. Like plants need sunlight and water.
STABILITY- Women love stability because it lets them know that their place in your life is solid. Even though I believe everything has an expiration date. It is important to give that woman consistency and adventure. A relationship without stability to a woman is like a man with no dick-USELESS. 
(How to keep your relationship stable-----LATER POST) 
WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?

2 comments:

  1. You better keep on schooling them Ms. La Boss! But what is a brother to do when he has done all of what you pointed out and more. Still no rest, matter of fact it is so much tension that he can't sleep at night. He loves her and sees going back out into the field as a lost cause.

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  2. If you have done eveything you could, including the factors stated in the post! Then you need to move on. When you do everything you can to make someone happy and it still doesnt work, you have to ask yourself is the sleepless nights and more work to put in worth it. You also have to worry about your well being and your happiness. When you stop doing these things and allow her to see the difference, she will appreciate you more. You need to rebuild yourself and gain your mojo back. Feel yourself how you once did when she was first attracted to you. See what happens!

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